Tearful goodbyes? 6 Ways to Help Your Child Settle Into Nursery.

Starting nursery is a big step for both children and parents, and while it’s exciting, those first few days can be challenging as your child adjusts to their new environment. Helping your little one settle in smoothly is key to ensuring they feel safe, comfortable, and happy.

Here are some tips to help make the transition as easy as possible.

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1. Gradual Introductions

One of the best ways to help your child settle in is by gradually introducing them to the nursery. Our nurseries offer a “settling-in week” with shorter than usual hours. This allows your child to familiarise themselves with the new surroundings and give them a chance to meet the staff and other children in a relaxed, non-pressured way.

2. Create a Goodbye Routine

It’s natural for your child to feel nervous during their first few days, and drop-offs can be particularly tough. Establishing a consistent goodbye routine helps to ease this transition. Whether it’s a special hug, a wave at the window, or a short phrase like “See you later, alligator!”, having a predictable and positive parting moment helps your child know what to expect and reassures them that you’ll be back.

3. Bring that blanky!

If your child has a favourite stuffed toy or blanket, let them take it to nursery for the first few days. A familiar object can provide a sense of security and comfort, especially when they’re in an unfamiliar environment. Just knowing they have something from home can make the transition less overwhelming.

4. Show them you’re smiling

Your child will look to you for cues on how to feel about starting nursery. If you show confidence and enthusiasm, your child is more likely to feel positive about this new experience. Try to stay upbeat, even if you’re feeling a little emotional yourself. Children are incredibly perceptive and may pick up on any anxiety you might have, so keeping a calm, encouraging attitude goes a long way.

5. Be Patient

Every child adjusts to nursery life at their own pace. For some, it might take just a few days to settle in, while others may need a little more time. Be patient and understanding with your child, and remember that it’s perfectly normal for them to need extra reassurance during this period. Communicate with the nursery staff if you have any concerns—they are there to support both you and your child.

6. Talk About Their Day

Once your child starts attending nursery, take the time to ask them about their day. Even if they’re too young to share all the details, simple questions like “Did you play with the toys?” or “Did you meet any new friends today?” can help open up a conversation and allow your child to express their feelings. This will help them process their experience and reinforce that nursery is a safe and positive place.

By providing a gradual introduction, maintaining routines, and offering emotional support, you can help make your child's first days at nursery a smoother, more comfortable experience. It's a time of adjustment, but with a little patience and the right approach, your child will soon feel at home in their new surroundings, ready to enjoy all the fun and learning that nursery has to offer.